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olivier's avatar

Richard, this hits right home. My poor sister was completely isolated for weeks in her covid-unit hospital bed, with no visitors allowed, before she passed. I think about that loneliness all the time. Thank you for this piece.

Richard Goodman's avatar

That is so sad, Olivier.

olivier's avatar

Yes, it is. At least there was the phone, while she could still handle it. Then messages, through the nurse. Still, a very long and lonely end. Sorry for bringing on all this sadness.

I wish you and Gaywynn a happy Easter !

Marina Osipova's avatar

As always, beautifully and movingly written, Richard. But sometimes, being alone is a blessing. So I think. Only if one is alone for a time, he/she can find himself/herself. I may be wrong, but it’s how it works for me.

Richard Goodman's avatar

Yes, I agree. We all need alone time!

Joan Donaldson's avatar

I read your essay to John and we looked at each other and said, "But the women stayed with Jesus!" While he was alone during the events on Good Friday, the women stayed at the cross and then Mary was the first person who saw Jesus on Easter morning. A fact that I cherish. blessings to you.

Richard Goodman's avatar

Yes, but.... If you read Matthew 27:55, it says, after the crucifixion, "And many women were there beholding afar off...Among which was Mary Magdalene..." So they weren't there at the foot of the cross as so many paintings would have it. They were "afar off." They did minister to him on the way to Jerusalem.

Elizabeth Godfrey's avatar

Yes, coming to terms with being truly alone is a step toward understanding that we all have to leave this world alone. We know it intellectually, but it's shocking anyway.

Wishing comfort to your cousin.

Richard Goodman's avatar

Easter...a poignant time.

Joan Donaldson's avatar

Thank you, Richard for focusing on how Jesus felt abandoned and alone. His statement makes me ache, because through all of time, he and the Father were always together. I can't imagine his agony of loneliness. May you spend this Easter in the company of friends. Joan

Richard Goodman's avatar

Thank you, Joan. I hope the same for you. As the scripture says, he was a man acquainted with grief.

Kaylene's avatar

A lovely post and so true. Blessings on your Easter, Richard.

Richard Goodman's avatar

Thank you, Kaylene. The very same for you.

Janet Shea's avatar

Dear Richard,

How beautiful and true. Such sacred words. Blessings to your cousin and you. Janet

Richard Goodman's avatar

Thank you, Janet. Happy Easter to you and your family.