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WOW! The Old Codger re-emerges in all his cantankerous glory. But I fully understand, appreciate, and agree!

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Jan 27, 2023Liked by Richard Goodman

Thank you! I always go along with it when friends suggest it, but it secretly aggravates me, especially as I always choose the best dish.

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Jan 27, 2023Liked by Richard Goodman

I hate sharing food too!!!!! HATE it!

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You've named my secret pet peeve. I don't like sharing food. It's mine.

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We’ll be sure to find you a restaurant to take you to that serves family style.

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Honest, Brave, Funny, What more could a reader want?

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Though I have no problem sharing, you are in excellent company. Julia Child felt the same way. https://www.nytimes.com/1999/11/10/dining/greedy-is-good-a-new-resistance-to-sharing.html

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I'm with you. No sharing---unless at a Chinese restaurant, where it must be a requirement (at least with the Asian contingent of my family)

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Always funny Richard! Thank you. I missed the one about vegetarians.

I only like sharing when on a love date, when the one you love says "would you like a bite?" because you want to breathe the air they breathe, see with their eyes, feel everything they feel. And maybe they are curious about what you are having...

Like you, the collective dishes bugs me. Especially the logistics of them. Reaching over, figuring out how to fit different things on your plate, and having to jump from completely different tastes from one bite to the next feels a bit superficial.

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